Why is revelation and depth so scary?

Who has the psycho-emotional depth we seek?

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Intimacy... what we most want, and fear. But what is it?
It's not sex.
It's not neediness.
It's not about oversharing.
Intimacy is about diving into the depths of who you are.
It's about trust, about being real...
But we can't explain it – you have to taste it for yourself.
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An exclusive community for people who are willing to look at themselves.
A dating site if you're single...
A school if you're in a relationship,
for couples can always dive deeper together.
Ready to see who you'll meet?
Ready to learn about yourself?
Then welcome. This is the place for you.
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Is swiping starting to feel superficial?
Is it a challenge to find substance beneath the thousands of faces?
We feel ya.
And that's why we're here –
all that substance, concentrated in one place.
Swipe no further – just experience the depth.
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Speed dating, dancing, socializing and all sorts of fun events.
Even if you don't meet "the one," you're definitely going to have a blast.
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A powerful study for couples.
How to break past the patterns we fall into?
Should there be scheduled date nights? Heart-to-heart sessions? Or just let it flow spontaneously?
What are you searching for in a counter-part? What do they really want in a partner?
Is it time for a deep, structured study of the relationship? Or just time to have more fun?
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Not looking for anything in particular?
This is just a community of awesome people.
If you're an awesome person, you'll be right at home.
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Want some fun date ideas?
Or gift ideas?
Or have a friend set you up on a blind date?
Or maybe just share more deeply what's going on for you?
You'll feel right at home here.
People here have a caliber you won't find anywhere else.

What we
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Courageous singles. And couples too.

Intimacy is not about sex. It’s not about talking the other’s ear off, and it’s certainly not about being needy. Intimacy is an adventure – the adventure of a lifetime. Being intimate is not for the faint of heart, for it requires honesty and the willingness to reveal yourself… and to accept the other’s revelation too. Intimacy blossoms from silence, and it can’t be forced. But when it comes, it can knock down all barriers of separation, and make you see yourself for who you truly are.

Uncovering the heart

An exclusive dating community

Forget all the sketchiness of dating sites. Here we only let in those willing to grow as human beings, and as lovers. We study people’s habits and lifestyles, their diet and spiritual practices, to ensure we don’t waste your time with matches that won’t really lead to anything. To us, dating should be filled with juiciness, brimming with potential. Ultimately, the challenge is to transcend all those games, and really open the heart. And that requires the right people.

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Tools for deepening

It starts with dating, but the real adventure begins when masks fall away and your partner starts mirroring aspects of yourself you didn’t want to see. As Eros starts to waver and withdraw, we have a choice: to leave and find someone else to read piecemeal pages of our “lifebook” to, or to stop running from ourselves and finally face those dreaded pages in our story we got so good at avoiding. As we dismantle our defenses, we get glimmers of true, conscious love, and a mysterious new universe opens.

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Not your average dating site – in fact, forget what you know about relationships – true intimacy is an unfathomable mystery.